You'll have to fight for your right to party. Relatives and colleagues have become overly dependent on you. That's why the prospect of you going on holiday throws them into a panic. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for taking a break. Leave written instructions for those who don't know how to perform essential tasks. Tell everyone you will not be answering phone calls, texts and emails while you are away. The sooner they learn to fend for themselves, the happier everyone will be.