You want more freedom than another party is willing to give. Continuing to defy their wishes will result in a breakup. This may be what you want now, but you'll quickly regret this decision. It's best to reinforce your bond rather than destroy it. Defying the wishes of someone who has always tried to give you space is insulting. Try another tack. It would be better to make a personal sacrifice for your partner. There are more important things than getting your way.