This is not a good time to adopt a 'my way or the highway' stance. Although you are bound and determined to do things your own way, you should not exert pressure on your business or romantic partner. There's a good chance your other half will be so insulted by their attitude that they'll end your union. This is the last thing you want to happen. Take a few deep breaths and strike a compromise. Your willingness to meet in the middle will be a mark of emotional maturity