Having lots of influence can only get you so far. If people resent you, they will find ways to undermine your success. Instead of making yourself good by diminishing others, seek to cultivate good will wherever you go. Thank those who make your life easier in small ways. Buy pastries for the office cleaning crew or give your assistant a gift card. Write a note to a store manager, praising a clerk's performance. Instead of issuing any criticism, give everyone sincere compliments for an entire day.