You're reluctant to reveal your vulnerability to others. When you are hurt, you tend to make a joke of the situation, rather than wear your heart on your sleeve. This can cause difficulty in your relationships. Instead of being motivated to help you, friends and family keep their distance. As a result, you feel alienated when you could be comforted. Stop acting like you're indifferent to rude treatment and insensitive behaviour. Loved ones will come to your side when they know how you've been affected.