You're not interested in surface considerations; you want to get to the heart of the matter. Probing too deeply into a friend's private life will create resentment. It's best to respect their boundaries. By giving your loved one the space they need, your relationship will become stronger. At some point, they'll confide a deep, dark secret. Resist the temptation to repeat this juicy story. By proving your loyalty, you'll lay the groundwork for a lifelong friendship. This alliance will help you in both good times and bad.