You find a close relationship to be too confining. Instead of asking for more freedom, simply assume it. Take a solitary holiday, enjoy an outing with friends or buy yourself something special. The important thing is to stop asking permission to do what you want. At first, your other half will be shocked by behaviour. They'll accuse you of being selfish and inconsiderate. Instead of getting defensive, continue to meet your own needs. Eventually, your loved one will accept the new you.