It's important to get in touch with your feelings and desires. Instead of automatically carrying out a boring routine, embark on a more meaningful path. You might have to cut back your hours at work, divest yourself of family responsibilities or downsize your lifestyle. These adjustments will raise eyebrows. If anyone tries making you feel guilty for changing your priorities, set them straight. You're no longer willing to do everyone else's dirty work. By making your own happiness primary, you'll become a better friend and partner.