Stop making every romantic interaction about you. Be willing to satisfy your partner's needs, even if they're shy about articulating them. The next time you go out, insist they pick the movie or restaurant. Resist the temptation to complain if they choose something you don't enjoy. When it comes to intimacy, invite your amour to demonstrate what they want. Don't be mocking or judgemental. When you demonstrate a real desire to be a good partner, your relationship will flourish.