Someone is poking their nose where it doesn't belong. It's time to tell this pest to back off and mind their own business. You don't like aggressive confrontations, but they are occasionally necessary. You're dealing with a person who doesn't care about anyone else's feelings but their own. The sooner you let them know you won't tolerate their obnoxious ways, the happier you will be. A supportive relative will give moral support during this difficult time. Their comforting words will soothe your frayed nerves.