Don't let jealousy tear a loving relationship apart. If you feel neglected by your amour, tell your partner in a straightforward way. Bitter recriminations will go over like a lead balloon; you're much better keeping emotion out of the conversation. When your partner realises you are asking for something that is perfectly reasonable, they'll alter their priorities. If you're single, resist the temptation to mix business with pleasure. The last thing you want is to jeopardise your job for a temporary flirtation.