Trying to buy someone's affection is a mistake. If you want to repair a broken relationship, you should spend more quality time in each other's company. Keep distractions like smartphones to a minimum when you're out together. This is your chance to focus on each other's needs. If you've fallen out of touch, be ready to ask questions. Listen carefully to the responses and withhold judgment. When your loved one realises you're sincere about mending fences, they'll let down their defences.